What I learn from my little life about the “Expectation” is the basis of all the relations, love of human beings, like
“how my husband should be?” and the expectation of all human being is who will fulfil my life with happiness, cherish with love and prosperity in entire life.
“How should my wife should be? who is always devoted to me
my entire life,”
“how my children should be? who will always serve me, obey my order and follow my path and guideline”
human always able those from whom he gets love, affection and eventually the person who fulfills his expectations, but he forgets that the only rule of “expectation” is to be disbanded, and fall into pieces and expectations always hurts and create dislikes, sorrow and unpleasant situation. In any case if any human genuinely and sincerely tries to fulfill others expectation or desire, he unable to fulfill the same.
This is because expectations of human beings originate from the brain and no human being or person knows, anticipates and read about others expectation, desire and hope that has other persons brain or mind. And where hatreds and dislikes take birth which later become struggle in the relationship and the whole relationship transformed into conflict. Unhappiness and sadness become the path of the relation. everyone starts complaining about others, they blame each other to understand each other.
Do you think expectation should the basis of any relation? or the relation should be on the basis of relations only. Think and comment ?
I think expectation alone would be a very weak foundation for any relationship to sustain. But expectations are so natural too and very difficult to keep them out.
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